Your honeymoon will be all bedroom romps and luxurious lounge chairs on the beach with expertly crafted cocktails, right? Not necessarily.

Wondering what to do on your honeymoon?

"Many couples naturally assume that their honeymoon will be something akin to a chick flick with all its romance and passion," says Laura Brotherson, marriage and sex therapist. And while it will certainly be wonderful, it will also be filled with surprises—little things no one ever told you about.

Here is the inside scoop on what really happens on most of our honeymoon Tours as most open minded couples shared with our team. 

Tips on what people do on Honeymoons to prepare yourself well enough for this special occassion of a lifetime...

1. The Trip Will Bring You Closer

Any vacation in which you share experiences and make memories will bond two people, but there's something to be said for the first time you check into a hotel as a married couple, just like there's a special thrill in telling the waiter you're celebrating your first days as husband and wife. It really hits you on your honeymoon that you're really in this together and it's official.

2. Sex Will Not Necessarily Be an Everyday Occurrence

We conducted a survey of 138 newlyweds and asked how many times did they, ahem, get busy? The answers ranged from multiple times a day to zero.The majority (32 percent) said they got down once a day.

One bride we surveyed shared that she thought something was wrong when her husband wasn't interested in sex on the daily. "When my husband declined to dive into bed with me on the fourth day of our honeymoon, I called a friend and wondered aloud if something was already wrong with our marriage. After all, aren't you supposed to have sex every day of this particular vacation?"

There's no "supposed to"—every couple is different, and that bride is in good company: 28 percent of the newlyweds said they were intimate every couple of days.

Another 28 percent answered more than once a day; 6 percent said the magic happened only once on the trip, and a final 6 percent shared that sex never happened at all.

3. Speaking of Getting Busy, the Actual

Wedding Night Might Not Be Fireworks

"Couples may not realize how exhausted they may be after their wedding preparations, travel, and the wedding day celebrations," says Brotherson. "And after a long, though exciting, wedding day, 

the first night may not always be the best time to have a great sexual experience together." 

4. You'll Learn New Things About Your Spouse

You might think you know everything about your partner, but 21 percent of brides we surveyed said they learned new things about them on the honeymoon. "I found out my husband likes spa treatments as much as I do," one bride dished. "He is excellent at driving on winding country roads," another bride revealed. "We should not go sea kayaking together," a third bride admitted.

5. You'll Share Your Newlywed Status

You might not wear "Mrs."-labeled everything (although if you do, do it with pride) but you'll definitely find yourself sharing the news. One bride shared that while she and her husband were in Maui, an older couple told her they'd been married for 50 years, at which point the normally reserved bride couldn't help but blurt out: "We've been married four days!"

In addition to sharing the good news with fellow travelers, make sure to mention it while making your hotel reservation and checking in. Most hotels and resorts have something special for newlyweds—from complimentary cocktails to room upgrades—so don't be shy and take advantage of this special time in your life.

6. You Might Find Yourself Avoiding Social Media

Sure, you'll want to check your phone and social media accounts occasionally, but many couples make an agreement to try and restrain themselves from social media and use it less than you usually would. The reason? You'll want to save special moments for the two of you, and the two of you alone. (Bonus: By avoiding social media, you'll return to tons of tagged wedding photos and comments that will extend that special newlywed time even more.)